Interactive Games and Experiential Tools to Make Sure Your Sex Life is Deeply Satisfying and Full of Passion

“I’ve been struggling with issues in my sex life for years now and tried counseling on and off and I feel like I’ve made more progress in these past few weeks than I have in the past few years!

~ Kate A, Member of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course

Finally! A clear approach to experience frequent, orgasmic pleasure!


These practices, tools and techniques are what Jaiya used to transform Erika and Damon’s relationship on Netflix’s docuseries ‘sex, love & goop’

Do you want more from your sex life?

You’re not getting your needs met in the bedroom…

Not knowing what turns you on or being able to ask for what you want…

And you’re ready to…

Get your needs and desires fed and fulfilled!

You’re frustrated because Pleasure and orgasm are elusive or non-existent for you…

And you’re ready to…

Experience deep, satisfying pleasure in ways you never knew were possible!

You suffer from Sexual incompatibility killing passion in your relationship(s) and you feel like your sex life is doomed…

And you’re ready to…

Discover fulfilling, orgasmic connection and young love passion… No matter what stage of relationship you’re in!

You lack Confidence in the bedroom, fumbling and failing between the sheets, unable to pleasure your lover to climax…

And you’re ready to…

Master the turns ons of
All 5 Erotic Blueprint Types and
Become the Ultimate Lover…

This step-by-step training gives you time tested tools to experience the fulfilling pleasure, deep intimacy and sexual satisfaction that you crave.

[ Discover Orgasmic Satisfaction - Join The Program ]

Forget the boring coursework!

8 In-Depth Modules, But Only…

3 sexy steps to sexual fulfillment…

1 life-changing program to achieve them all!

Know Your Pleasure

Do you know what’s erotically possible and how much pleasure is available in your body?

Do you know what really turns you on (and off)?

Can you successfully guide your lover to drive you to orgasmic climax?

Can you confidently drive your lover wild?

You’ve got sexy Superpowers

This immersive program guides you, step-by-step, to master the art of sexual satisfaction, the way YOU want it!

If you’re single, you don’t need to wait for sexual fulfillment. Now is the perfect time to fill your pleasure cup and make sure every new relationship meets your needs!

If you’re in a relationship, keep things hot, increase variety, frequency and fulfillment as you deepen connection and unlock tools for lifelong passion!

Own Your Pleasure

You deserve pleasure!

It’s your birthright!

What’s holding you back from experiencing the pleasure you desire?

Is it difficult for you to ask for what you want?

Are you holding on to emotional blocks or suffering from a changing sex drive?

Do you judge your desires, feel weird or broken in your sexuality?

You are NOT broken. You are whole and complete, just as you are.

This training will help you clear emotional blocks, shed shame and fear, take control of your sexual health and dismantle the Shadows of your sexuality that are killing your pleasure.

It’s time to claim the pleasure you deserve.

Live Your Pleasure

Empowered! Confident! Expressed!

When you’ve completed The Blueprint Breakthrough Program…

You’ll have the specific skills, the erotic intelligence and the pleasure vocabulary to know what you want and how to get it!

Confident that you can satisfy your lover’s needs and desires (no matter what Blueprint Type they are), you’ll become the ultimate lover.

Empowered to Optimize Your Sexual Health and Pleasure: able to navigate physical, hormonal, and emotional challenges, so you’re always vital and alive in your sexuality…

No matter what stage of life you or your relationship(s) are in, you’ll be able to experience sexual satisfaction and red hot passion!

It’s time to live your orgasmic life!

[ Yes! I Want Sexual Satisfaction ]

2 super easy options to get started today.

Join as a ‘Classic’ or ‘Premium’ Member

Just $597

The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Program: This revolutionary training in pleasure and sexual vitality shows you how to get your needs met and desires fulfilled. No more guessing how to experience orgasmic fulfillment or how to drive your lover wild with desire. Breakthrough blocks, resolve sexual incompatibility challenges, ignite lifetime passion and discover pleasures you didn’t even know existed!
The Blueprint Breakthrough Workbook™: This empowering companion to the program accelerates your progress, deepens powerful lessons, and empowers you to take control of your pleasure destiny
All 5 Erotic Blueprint Special Reports: Powerful cheat sheets for pleasure. Quickly understand the orgasmic Superpowers for all 5 Blueprint Types, and how to overcome common pitfalls that create disconnection between lovers

YES! Sign Me Up for Classic Membership

LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP Erotic Freedom Club! Access a deep archive of trainings on topics like Energetic Orgasms, Overcoming Sexual Incompatibility, Sustaining Passion, Safe Kink Exploration, and Becoming a Masterful Lover, and live upcoming trainings for the community.

*Classic Membership Does Not Include The Masterclass Series with Jaiya.

Or Choose The Easy Payment Plan

Only $1,990

Premium Membership Includes all ‘Classic’ Membership Benefits Like The Blueprint Breakthrough™ Program & Workbook and All 5 Blueprint Special Reports, plus…

YES! Get your own team of sex and relationship experts giving you personalized guidance and support every month, month-after-month…

2 Monthly “Pleasure Mastery” Coaching Calls:
Our Erotic Blueprint Lead Coaches help you navigate challenges and bust through blocks so you can experience the sexual satisfaction you deserve.
2 Monthly “Sex, Tips, Tools and Tricks” Coaching Calls:
Our Coaches deliver hot practices and sexy strategies for increasing your fun, frequency, and fulfillment in the bedroom and beyond.
More Premium Bonuses
The Erotic Blueprint Immersions: Experience new orgasmic satisfaction as Jaiya Guides you in 5 Days of Quick and Easy Pleasure Immersion recorded sessions For EVERY Blueprint Type.
Special Bonus Content Only Offered to Premium Members

YES! I Want Premium Membership

Or Choose The Easy Payment Plan

Here’s EXACTLY how
The Blueprint Breakthrough Program
Gets You Results…

In 70 (5 to 15 minute) engaging video trainings
Jaiya and Ian give you…

  • Fun Games to uncover all your (and your lover’s) hottest turn ons, so you can always get your desires fulfilled (Solo or partnered)
  • Skills to Drive Your Lover Wild: Sex techniques are NOT the answer. Discover how to confidently satisfy your lover’s desires and become their ultimate lover
  • Orgasmic Pleasure Practices to deepen connection and expand your pleasure. Unlock the gates to your orgasmic satisfaction
  • Tools to dismantle blocks to Your Pleasure! End embarrassment, pain, and shame. Our approach to sexual wellness empowers you to freely express your truth and claim the pleasure you deserve
  • Sexy, Successful Communication Tools: Get your needs met, overcome sexual incompatibility, deepen intimacy and ignite passion for a lifetime…

How the Program Works

Module 1

Your road to success

(foundations for your Blueprint Breakthrough)

Easy wins speed up your erotic transformation!
Right from the beginning, we give you powerful practices and simple strategies to start getting your desires met and needs fulfilled.

Module 2

Your Stage of Sexuality™

(so you can experience greater erotic fulfillment)

Discover the 5 different ‘Stages of Sexuality.’ Honoring what Stage you’re currently in releases you from self-judgment and empowers you to relax into your authentic sexuality.

We also reveal to you the 4 fundamental pathways that could enhance (or cripple) your sexual health and pleasure.

Module 3

Uncover your unique map of pleasure

(so you’re never left wanting again)

Your body has the secrets to your ecstatic satisfaction.

You’re not going to uncover your hottest turn ons by reading words on a page.

We give you detailed, fun and easy practices to determine your own or someone else’s Blueprint delights!

Once you master these skills, erotic superpowers are yours for a lifetime.

Module 4

Master the art of total orgasmic fulfillment

(your pleasure cup runneth over when you learn to feed your desires)

Each Blueprint Type flirts and seduces differently. Each Blueprint Type experiences arousal, turn ons, orgasmic delight and climaxes differently.

This module empowers you to get the touch you crave! AND have the confidence that you can satisfy any lover like never before.

BONUS: Super hot “Feeding the Blueprints” video demonstrations (tastefully PG – nudity-free) show you solo-pleasure and partnered practices in every Erotic Blueprint Style. Watch, learn, and implement. Develop the ability to make any lover come back for seconds (or stay for a lifetime).

Module 5

Seductively Speaking the Blueprints

(your presence is your power)

Did you know that each Blueprint Type has entirely different words that turn them on? 

We’ll show you the exact words to use, how to email, or sext to hit exactly the right tone to drive your lover wild.

More than words… Each Blueprint wants to be seduced and aroused differently. Your vocal tone, your body language…

Does your lover feel your presence when you’re with them? Can you confidently play with control and surrender? Dominance and submission?

Module 6

Bust Through Obstacles and Own Your Pleasure!

(clear the past so you can indulge in the present)

No amount of sexual positions, perfect communication, or erotic games can help you bypass your wounds.

If you want to enjoy sex on a whole new level, we’ll help you heal unresolved demons leftover from your exes, boundary breaks, disempowering inherited beliefs, and on and on.

Transform your biggest obstacles into your most potent pathways for pleasure, when you heal the Shadow side of your Blueprints.

Module 7

Experience erotic satisfaction you didn’t even know was possible

(become the ultimate lover – solo and partnered)

The possibilities for pleasure are endless.

Expanding into the turn ons of all the Blueprint Types means you get to be turned on by everything, if you want. Solo or partnered!

Your lover’s pleasure map is probably very different from yours. If you don’t know how to feed their desires, passion can fade and connection can die.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if you were authentically turned on by what your lover desires?

When you expand into ALL the Blueprint Pleasures, you no longer “perform” for your lover. You become the ultimate lover, because you know how to access your own pleasure, solo, and how to please any lover, no matter their Blueprint Type. 

Discovering ALL that’s erotically possible is what this module is all about!

Module 8

Pleasure satisfaction for a lifetime

(don’t settle for less… ever again!)

You are the master of your own pleasure destiny.

This module gives you the tools to experience fulfilling connection, lusty passion and hot sex for the rest of your life.

No matter whether you’re single or in a relationship, 20 years old or 80, you can access turn on and pleasure satisfaction!

Discover the tools that Jaiya and Ian have used and have shared with thousands of students to keep the fires of passion burning bright for a lifetime!

Joyfully and Fearlessly Get The
Connection and Satisfaction That You Crave!

And from another one of our clients, Jennifer…

The Deliciousness that is in this module… Amazed by the videos.

Even the ones with the single people… that module was the most fun, because I got actually step into someone’s shoes that may not be the type of Blueprint that I am and really understand what they like… which is REALLY helpful if you have a partner that is not your blueprint.

~ Jennifer ~

So much more than just an online course…

Incredible Bosuses You Receive With ‘Classic’ Membership

Get More Pleasure, and Better Results In Less Time!


The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Workbook

(Value $97.00)

This empowering companion to the program accelerates your progress, deepens powerful lessons, and empowers you to take control of your pleasure destiny!

Journaling, worksheets, and written guidance are powerful learning tools to help understand, integrate and apply these teachings.

This companion workbook deepens your processes, helping you…

  • Determine your Core Erotic Blueprint™
  • Uncovering what your partner’s Blueprint 
  • Learning how to satisfy the desires of all 5 Erotic Blueprint Types, so sexual satisfaction can be yours 
  • Discover your Sexuality Stage: Honor where you’re at, and stop judging yourself  
  • Uncover your sexual obstacles that are holding you back, so you can find solutions and access the pleasure you deserve

[I’m Ready for My Blueprint Breakthrough]


Value $97.00

The Sex Communication Checklist

The ‘Sex Communication Checklist’ is your perfect pleasure discovery cheat sheet!

Tired of…

Fumbling around in confusion, wishing you knew what your lover wanted…


Hoping they could read your mind, and guess perfectly how to turn you on in all the ways you desire…

The Sex Communication Checklist
Gives You The Menu For
Fun, Free, and Fulfilling
Pleasure Exploration

In the bedroom we often get bored, frustrated, or convinced we’re sexually incompatible, because it appears we and our lover want different things.

Solution: Expand your knowledge of all the erotic possibilities for play, increase your sexual skills, and discuss desires with your lover…

And you’ll find tons of common ground for electrifying erotic exploration and expansion.

  • End the Guesswork: To succeed when you play any game, you need to know the rules. This empowering Checklist lays out the game board and defines the moves, so you can dive in and have fun!
  • Discover the Pleasure Possibilities: Over 150 different sex techniques are broken down by Erotic Blueprint Type for your orgasmic exploration 
  • Experience Mutual Satisfaction: Playfully define exactly how you want to play, well before you even dive between the sheet

“The Sex Talk”
Fun, Frisky, and Fruitful!

[ Get your Sex Communication Cheat Sheet today!]


Value = Priceless

LIFETIME Club Membership!

Unlock a Treasure Trove of Bonuses

And Compassionate Support
As a Member of Our
Exclusive, Private Online Community

Discover a sanctuary where you can Be YOU!

Our virtual community is a place of empathy, support, and growth, where sexual healing and expansion are the norm.

Shed your inhibitions, open yourself up to new experiences, and
ignite the passionate flame within you.

We are a consent based community!

Go at your pace. Only try what feels safe and exciting for you.

No unwanted advice or interference here – only encouragement, backing, and total acceptance.

Say goodbye to mediocre sex and embrace the orgasmic pleasure you deserve!

Club members have access to a treasure trove of extra video trainings and live bonus calls, like…

The ‘Erotic Secret Sessions‘ Archives*

Value $97.00

In these scintillating sessions, our Expert Coaches deliver secrets to turn up the heat and satisfaction in your sex life. Discover specific techniques and practices for…

  • Better Solo-Pleasure 
  • Navigating Aging and Sexuality; 
  • Creating Hot (and Safe) Kink Scenes, 
  • And how to SQUIRT!

The ‘Awaken Pleasure Campfires’ Archives*

Value $197.00

These insightful conversations explore topics like…

  • How to Have Energetic Orgasms
  • Overcoming Sexual Incompatibility
  • Staying Connected to Your Pleasure

As a member of the Club, you have instant access to the archives of these delicious trainings and…

You’ll be invited to participate in future, live ‘Erotic Secret Sessions’ and ‘Awaken Pleasure Campfires’ Conversations.

You’ll ALWAYS have something to explore!!!


Value $85

All 5 Erotic Blueprint Special Reports

For Singles or Couples… 

These Blueprint Reports are powerful cheat sheets to dive into luscious self-pleasure or to quickly get insights on how to please your longtime lover or a brand new amour.

  • Each 28 page report is your customized guidebook detailing practical pleasure tools designed specifically for each Blueprint Type…
  • So you can begin to tap into all the pleasure possibilities right away!

Value = Priceless!

LIFETIME membership to our exclusive, private online Community

Erotic Freedom Club

Discover a sanctuary
where you can Be YOU!

Our virtual community is a place of empathy, support, and growth, where sexual healing and expansion are the norm.

Shed your inhibitions, open yourself up to new experiences, and ignite the passionate flame within you. 

We are a consent based community!

Go at your pace. Only try what feels safe and exciting for you.

No unwanted advice or interference here – only encouragement, backing, and total acceptance.

Say goodbye to mediocre sex and
Embrace the orgasmic pleasure you deserve. 

Club members have access to a treasure trove of extra video trainings and live bonus calls that focus on themes like: energetic orgasms, successfully navigating kink dynamics, sexual incompatibility solutions, and so much more!

You’ll ALWAYS have something to explore!!!

Upgrade to
‘Premium Membership’

Get Expert Coaching Support…

Value = Priceless!

4 Expert Led Coaching Calls Every Month!

( A truly priceless bonus! )

Get Personalized Support Every Step of the Way!

You’ll have our expert Erotic Blueprint Coaches™ at your fingertips for as many as 4 group coaching calls every month, for a lifetime!

Get exceptional, personalized coaching, feedback and guidance.

No matter where you are in the course, our Coaches can deepen and accelerate your process, helping you break through blocks, brainstorm new solutions and take you deeper into your own pleasure exploration.

And, as a paid in full member, you’ll always have access to these coaching calls!

Go at your own pace!
Get the support you need, when you need it!

If life gets busy and you can’t make it to these calls for a while, we’ll be here for you when you get back on track.

Are You Shy?

Be a fly on the wall and still receive life-changing insights

By simply attending the monthly coaching calls, you will hear the challenges of other participants and you will see that you are NOT alone in your struggles. Hearing the shares of other members, experiencing the powerful coaching, you will have your own breakthroughs. We’ve seen it time and time again.

Value $485.00

The Blueprint Immersions

Dive Deep as Jaiya Guides You in 5 Days of Quick and Easy Pleasure Immersion Sessions For EVERY Blueprint Type: (Value $97.00 each) Feed all your Blueprint turn-ons, and expand into new pleasures to find your unique style of orgasmic fulfillment.

A Timeless Toolbox of Breathwork, Touches, and Exercise to Bring Your Body Into Pleasure: Use the meditations, breathwork, touches, and other exercises you learn to strengthen and enjoy your connection to pleasure anytime, anywhere – they are timeless and endlessly delicious tools to feed your Blueprint with the pleasure you need to thrive

Expert Guidance To Safely Explore Your Pleasure: Skip past all the guesswork, awkwardness, or confusion. Instead, simply watch and follow along as we guide you through the best, proven methods to immerse yourself in all the pleasure your Blueprint has to offer…

Learn How to Feed and Energize Your Body With Pleasure: Giving your body the pleasure it’s built for is about more than just experiencing new erotic ecstasy – it’s the most natural tool we have to naturally support your mental and physical health, reduce cortisol, increase health, feel good hormones and naturally boost your mood – on demand!

With The
‘Blueprint Immersions’
you have no excuses and
everything you need to…

Claim the Pleasure That You Deserve!

What Our Clients Say…

Take it from one of our clients, Leyla…

“I love it ALL! There is so much information.

Even within this year, I haven’t explored all of it… I’ve done the whole Blueprint Course and it opened up so much for me… I’m actually exploring now in reality, coming back to it, diving and dipping into all other bonuses we have there… I will spend years exploring all there is to explore… Thank you so much for creating it.”

~ Leyla – Erotic Freedom Club Member ~

Hear this couple's experience with the Blueprints...

My relationship with pleasure has completely changed since taking the course.” ~ Jamie

“Taking the course completely transformed my relationship with pleasure. Before taking the course, I felt like pleasure was something that I had to seek out, or something that I needed to outsource. Now I know that it’s something that exists in me all the time, like a well I can tap into at any moment- not something that I need to rely on anyone else for.” ~ Terra

And another couple...

The Blueprints were a mega delicious gamechanger!” ~ Leidy

“The Blueprints definitely opened my eyes and a world of possibilities” ~ Dino

But keep this in mind:
The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough
accepts and welcomes ALL erotic realities,
personalities, and possibilities…

But it is NOT for everyone.

Trauma therapy is not covered in this program

Our Coaches are trauma informed but we do not represent ourselves to be trauma therapists.

Trauma Therapy in this area is highly specialized and requires intensive attention and specialization. So, if you’ve experienced sexual trauma, harassment, extreme repression, or otherwise have trouble defining clear sexual boundaries, we strongly suggest pursuing another avenue to resolve underlying triggers or emotions that may be keeping you from sexual satisfaction.

However, taking this training and being part of our sex-positive and informed community has led to a profound healing for many of our clients.

The Sexual Shadows that create disconnection, inhibit full sexual expression and block your empowerment, can be cleared.

When you’re ready, you can experience your own Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough without risking triggers that derail your transformation.

Consent and Healthy Boundaries are absolutely essential for this program's success

Safety is the essential ingredient needed to achieve true sexual fulfillment.

If you are unwilling or unable to responsibly engage in consent discussions and honor boundaries, this community won’t be a good fit for you.

This program looks at consensual emotional and physical work, designed to help people discover who they are and what they enjoy. To achieve that, we all need to feel seen, accepted and safe.

The ability to engage in consent conversations and to respect your own boundaries and the boundaries of others is the foundation of creating that safety.

Every member of our community commits to engaging with informed consent only. Anyone who doesn’t agree, or violates consent, is removed.

And we will demonstrate and teach you how to practice honoring consent within our community AND in your relationships.

Got questions?

We've got answers...

Frequently Asked Questions

The biggest difference is that with Premium Membership you get lifetime, personalized coaching support. Premium Members receive access to 4 group coaching calls every month.

  • Monthly Pleasure Mastery Group Coaching Calls: These calls are your access to one-on- one coaching to bust the blocks that stand in the way of your pleasure. Our Lead Blueprint Coaches are available to you during this call for one-on-one coaching.  These calls attract a lot of members, so you should come prepared with your questions and raise your hand at the beginning of class.
  • Monthly Sex Tips Tools and Tricks group calls: This call gives you all the sex techniques, games, strategies and pleasure practices to support your Erotic expansion exactly where you are here and now. We’ll brainstorm sex life challenges, Sexy Sex Labs and Adventure Dates to supercharge your sex life

There are also additional bonuses for Premium Members.

> Refer to this chart to see the different courses and benefits that come with each level of membership.

Yes, yes and yes!  Being erotically alive and connected has nothing to do with being in a relationship with a partner or lover.  We believe each individual sets their own table for sexual satisfaction, whether single or in a partnership.  You can have sexual satisfaction in solo practice.  You can tune your erotic instrument and play yourself into a lather of ecstatic delights. 

And if you are seeking to be in a relationship, learning what turns you on will set you up to get your needs met when you do attract that amazing new lover.  Mastering the skills of feeding each Erotic Blueprint Type™ will turn you into a Sexy Superhero.  You can confidently enter into erotic play with a new lover(s), be certain to get your needs met and blow them away with your otherworldly ability to feed their deepest desires.  In fact, Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course is some of the best training to attract your ideal lover and craft a relationship with irresistible magnetic attraction for a lifetime.

First of all, no one outside of you can meet your sexual needs unless YOU know what those needs are. This immersive mentorship style program gives you all the tools you need to uncover the full menu of what really turns you on (and turns you off).  Get the permission to claim your consensual pleasure and live your pleasure!  

8 in-depth modules with over 70 easy to digest and actionable video trainings take you on a journey of sexual awakening and empowerment, transforming your life, not just your sex life, but your entire relationship to sexual health and pleasure.

You’ll get in touch with your own body, learn how to talk openly about the things you want, and develop the skills needed to entice and invite your lover(s) to give you the pleasure you crave.

You’d be surprised how untrue that belief is. Most people in their 30s and beyond place sexual exploration and excitement on the backburner. Life becomes more about work, duties, and to-do lists.

The statistics show that most people are not living sexully fulfiling lives.

The only thing that will turn this sad reality around is when people like you decide to claim their pleasure and learn what it takes to experience deeply fulfilling intimacy and sexual satisfaction.

No matter what you find “hot” or stimulating, we promise you: we’ve seen it all. You’re welcome here, and yes, you are normal. 

Unfortunately, society has a way of making people feel weird if they aren’t into the standard, vanilla perception of sex portrayed in the media. 

But sex isn’t one size fits all ― and people aren’t either. One person’s worst nightmare is someone else’s ultimate fantasy. We’re not here to judge. We’re just here to help people accept themselves, celebrate their uniqueness, and embrace consensual crafted and fulfilling sex lives.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Consent is at the foundation of our work!  In our world you must have or develop skills to honor the boundaries of others and the awareness to know your own, so you can clearly declare your “Hell Yes!” and “Hell No!” in all areas of life, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy.

There are many ways to live out taboo fantasies.  What we do not accept in our community is when you live out your desires in non-consensual ways that cause harm to others.  That does NOT fly in our community.

Unlike so many online courses, we deliver 8 in-depth modules educating you with somatic, visual teachings about all things sex-related from a deeply researched, professional angle. Our trained coaches, and our meticulously studied and tested Blueprint Methodology is truly unique and revolutionary in the world sex education.  

This program takes you on a step-by-step journey to understand your entire, 360 degree eroticism.  You get powerful, brief video lessons that give you fun practices you can put to use right away.

You experience quick wins that show up what’s possible and we give you easy to apply practices so you always have something to explore.  And you can explore it all at your own level of comfort.

Single folx and Couples have different needs, and we give everyone ways to apply these lessons every step of the way. 

This information and these practices, paired with your lifetime membership, that you get once you’ve made all payments to be paid in full, are delivered in an accepting, open-minded, sex-positive community, which creates the perfect virtual environment for people to learn ALL about sex, pleasure, and intimacy ― not just one little part of it.

You can purchase a partner’s membership at a special price.  Simply follow the links at check out.  You can enroll your partner for full membership for a lower tuition.  We change this pricing from time to time.

The only thing we require is that you say “Yes” to our community rules when you join the group and we really want you to say “Hi” in an introductory post.  


We believe you will find the courage to lift the lid of your sexy life and share with us over time, but you are not required to make posts or to ask questions during the group coaching calls.  You can get a lot of transformation by being a sexy fly on the wall, if that’s how you need to participate

Once your membership is paid in full, the Course is yours to keep for life.  

We deliver the course online and, once you’re a LIFETIME MEMBER, you always have access to al the modules inside of Erotic Freedom Club.

While you are taking Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course you will be part of Erotic Freedom Club. The classes, Coaching sessions, bonuses and special treats that are part of Erotic Freedom Club are only available to active members of the club. 

Short answer: Everything that is part of Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course is yours for life to use and review at your leisure once you have paid in full for your membership. Enjoy 😉

For those who choose the Payment Plan:  If you take the payment plan option and do not complete your payments, you will lose access to the course and there will be no refund for the monthly payments you have made while you have been a member.

Your Credit Card statement will say “Jaiya, Inc.” for the charges for this program.

If you choose the payment plan option, you will be billed every 30 days for your next payment.

If your credit card number changes or you need to change your payment method for any reason, it is your responsibility to update our records.

There is a 72 hour cancellation period from when you first enroll.

You will not be refunded for any monthly payments made towards your tuition.  Essentially each month you make your payment you continue to have access for that month.

Once your payments are complete and you have paid in full, you get LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP and, unless you do not keep the community agreements, you will enjoy membership for life.

Yay!!!  Lifetime membership!

By default we wouldn’t be able to sell ANYTHING online without having an SSL Certificate (allows for a secure connection from web server to a browser), on top of that we are PCI DSS Compliant (Payment Card Industry Data Security Standard), which is another level of security we were required to comply with in order to use our Payment Gateway online.  You are in very good hands!


Although the material for the course is completely pre-recorded and intended to be a self paced program, there are opportunities for live interaction and to get support.

For ‘Classic’ Members, the Online Community Feed is a great place to ask for support.

Premium Members get 4 Group Coaching Calls every month. So, if you know you benefit with personalized support, Premium Membership may be the best choice for you.

By subscribing to the course you also receive membership to Erotic Freedom Club, our exclusive online, sex-positive community filled with like minded, supportive seekers and many of our Erotic Blueprint Coaches™ ready to support and serve.

Many people in our community are transformed by the reality of being surrounded by so many sex positive peers and some members come away with life long friendships.

The course begins as soon as you are a “Hell Yes!”. The course materials are available to you directly after subscribing  – it can take up to 72 hours to get you into Erotic Freedom Club.  Please follow ALL the steps that we send to you in emails after you have joined the course.

All you need to do is enroll, follow the emailed instructions and get into Erotic Freedom Club!!  

Then we ask that you create your profile in the Club and then dive right in to Module One of the Course.

This program is designed for self-paced learning, so you can go as fast or as slow as you need. It is intended to be taken no quicker than one module per week over the course of 8 weeks so you have a chance to allow the lessons to really sink in and for pleasure to fully integrate into your life.

We estimate you will need to set aside around 2.5-3 hours per module.

We have broken each of the 8 modules into several, short classes (5 to 15 minutes each) with fun and playful action steps along the way.

Our time estimate is only regarding the time you will need in order to watch the recorded material and complete the work booklet. 

The ideal way to take this course is by expanding into more pleasure throughout your entire life. So, the real answer is 24/7! Opening to greater connection and pleasure throughout your daily experience.

This is not a course, it is a way of life, if you choose it.

Since we do offer lifetime access to the course we have not made the videos available for download. 

As a member of the Club, you can revisit the course material whenever you want without having to search through your old computer files to find it. 

You will also be notified if at any point the course materials are updated or enhanced in any way. The worksheets, however, are available for download.

Once you become a LIFETIME MEMBER you have lifetime access to the course through Erotic Freedom Club.

If you choose the pay-in-full option, you automatically get Lifetime Membership to Erotic Freedom Club

If you choose the payment plan option, you get Lifetime Membership after you final payment is complete.

The tuition offered to you is for a single membership. 

By upgrading your membership to include your partner, you both receive access to Erotic Freedom Club and ALL of its benefits.

You each have your own access login. You both get to create your personalized profiles and express your individuality within the community, as well as join the live calls on your own.

We have a strong container of consent and only those who have become a member of Erotic Freedom Club can get all the benefits of the course and the community. 

In order to maintain this container we need to know who is a part of our community. By choosing to enroll your partner in the program, they will become a full participant in the community, and will then be permitted to engage in the course.

Not at all. 

We’re just a group of people who love to talk and learn about sex. We have professional, highly trained coaches that give advice and feedback no matter what your sexual journey looks like (whether you’re monogamous or polyamorous, straight, gay, bi, queer or anyplace else on the spectrum, you have a home here.)  

As long as you’re committed to conscientious, consensual and empowered sexuality, you’ll be in the right place.

The Erotic Blueprints are based on over 25 years of Somatic Sexological study, working with thousands of clients, including clinical study and research. 

The purpose of this course is to free you from anything that blocks you from getting the consensual pleasure that you deserve.  We give you the information, skills and pleasure education to experience the deep intimate connection you desire and pleasures you never even knew were possible. And we honor your boundaries all along the path.

Not to worry! 

We schedule our live calls for different times each month so that wherever you are in the world, there will be a call that you will be able to make at some point. Plus, we record the Sex Tips, Tools and Tricks calls and post them for review online in Erotic Freedom Club.

We do not record the Pleasure Mastery calls, because these calls are designed to dive into the deeper, more challenging material that arises, so we can coach people through their challenges.  We believe these calls should create as much safety as we can and to be as confidential as we can make them.

We need you!!

The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc. has a personal and professional goal of evolving our framework, language and sentiments to be progressively inclusive for all types of folx. We are actively working on this and had a diversity specialist on set of the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course during our entire shoot making sure we were using inclusive language and neutralizing gender specific associations.

However, this is work in progress and honestly, we can’t do it without you! We need more leaders and people who are willing to be seen in our community, people who are normally underrepresented. We want to celebrate you!!

There will be no live nude webcamming and although there is no nudity in the recorded material, they do generate significant heat and demonstrate a wide range of pleasure possibilities for you to try.

There are occasional bonuses that are explicit and we do our best to warn you, if there is material which we think might be triggering.  We ask the you take personal responsibility for your own level of comfort with the materials.

It is required that you are 18 years of age or older to participate in any of our course offerings.

Of course! We know how to shake our booties like nobody’s business.

We get the dance floor hoping and we dance ‘til we drop.

After all, our number one core brand value is PLEASURE FIRST.

Come dance with us!!! 

Ready to find yourself in ecstasy?

Sensory indulgence, heightened arousal, a life filled with passion, fulfillment, and satisfaction – it’s all possible with The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough.

Start experiencing new breakthroughs, sensations, and confidence just like these clients have done:

“New dynamics inside and outside of the bedroom are creating increased connection, trust and satisfaction.”

“I have the adventure of living my desires, having an exciting erotic life of getting my needs met. I have the life of my dreams.”

“I feel more empowered to be who I am and the work that I’ve done around sex has had a positive ripple effect in all aspects of my life.”

“I discovered a whole side of myself that I never knew existed… not only did my arousal increase but my feelings of unworthiness dissipated! I began to love myself.”

“I have all that I need to be deeply fulfilled and satisfied. I am exploring in ways I haven’t before with a new confidence and ability to freely express who I want to be.”

“It’s changed my whole life. I know what I need now, I can communicate that to my partner. I’m so fed.”

“Learning the BP’s are allowing me to bloom into my fullest self in my everyday life as well as in the bedroom.”

“The blueprints gave me a level of nonjudgement and acceptance that I’m not sure I could have accessed any other way.”

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Statements made by current or former clients or by team members of The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc., and Jaiya, Inc. are not meant to represent the results or benefits you can expect from this course.

Moreover, we aren’t aware of the state of your love life or the depth of your commitment to satisfying sex and intimacy.

In order to achieve results, students must commit to and participate in all The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Program modules. If you’re in a partnership, we advise doing the program with your partner(s).

Though no explicit promise can be made for the individual results you will receive, we stand by the quality of all of our materials, including our modules, bonuses, advice, and practices.